DC hotels are expensive. The city has a constant stream of government visitors, tourists, and conference attendees that keeps occupancy high and rates elevated relative to its actual size. For gay visitors, Dupont Circle and Logan Circle are the right neighborhoods — both are on the Metro Red Line, both are walkable for the bar scene, and both are pleasant neighborhoods to wander during the day.
The U Street/14th Street area is a good alternative if you want to be closer to the more current nightlife scene. It is on the Green and Yellow Metro lines, about 10 minutes from Dupont. The neighborhood has good restaurants and a more neighborhood feel than the hotel-heavy blocks near Dupont Circle.
When to Book Early
Capital Pride in June is the main spike. Book at least two to three months ahead if you want Dupont or Logan Circle at reasonable rates. Black Pride DC over Memorial Day weekend in May is similar — the city fills up and prices spike. Cherry weekend in February is smaller but still pushes up Dupont rates. Federal holidays generally increase hotel occupancy across the board in DC due to tourism; plan accordingly.
Late August and most of the fall and winter (outside of specific event weekends) offer the best pricing. January and February outside of Cherry weekend can be very cheap by DC standards.
Hotels
Self-Catering Options
For longer stays, short-term rentals in Dupont, Logan Circle, or Shaw are worth considering. They are typically better value than hotels for stays of a week or more and offer more space. The Capitol Hill neighborhood, further east, is popular with gay men who work in government or law and is worth knowing about for a longer stay, though it is less central to the bar scene.
Practical Notes
DC has a hotel tax of around 14-15% on top of the room rate. Hotel parking in Dupont Circle runs $35-50 per night. If you are not renting a car, skip parking and use Metro and rideshare — it is much cheaper and usually faster. Reagan National Airport (DCA) is on the Blue and Yellow Metro lines, about 20 minutes to downtown. Dulles is further out and less convenient.
For the full DC picture: Gay Washington DC Guide.